Triggers

What are triggers?

It is my opinion, “issues of life” are our hidden triggers which acts like a pop up and usually comes from out of nowhere.  This is why one must “keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.”

"A trigger is something that sets off a memory tape or flashback transporting the person back to the event of her/his original trauma.

Triggers are very personal; different things trigger different people. The survivor may begin to avoid situations and stimuli that she/he thinks triggered the flashback. She/he will react to this flashback, trigger with an emotional intensity similar to that at the time of the trauma. A person’s triggers are activated through one or more of the five senses: sight, sound, touch, smell and taste.The senses identified as being the most common to trigger someone are sight and sound, followed by touch and smell, and taste close behind. A combination of the senses is identified as well, especially in situations that strongly resemble the original trauma. Although triggers are varied and diverse, there are often common themes” 

Source: PsychCentral 

Triggers are like a blame game being played against self to self-destroy self depending on the triggers which can vary from person to person. 

Sometimes triggers are emotionally painful. 

Triggers whenever they are presented is an opportunity for one to find their own strength and not be triggered. Remember, you are stronger than your triggers and your direct and indirect pain of something someone did twenty years ago as if it happen yesterday. One cannot allow triggers or yesterday’s pain to rob you of you. Sometimes you have to tell yourself you are an amazing human being who is ongoing work in progress. 

Triggers are our unaddressed emotional landmine waiting to be triggered off, leaving negative psychological imprints of one’s past experiences one is aware of or not aware of. Triggers are a silent cry for help to fix the unfixable with support, heal the unhealed,  to confront the unconfronted and to uproot the rooted traumatic experiences one root at a time. 

Triggers are our opportunity to breathe in and exhale and to let it GO! 

Triggers will cause one to become a self-interrogator, to interrogate others instead of interrogating self to see if the same expectations you have of others, you have the same expectation for yourself. 

Attitudes is key and personal work on one’s self will develop one’s ongoing life skills that are underdeveloped. 

A trigger is a thought recognition and it is past experiences, which can represent the good and the bad we have encountered along the way during our life journey. “Issues of life” for some it is a secret addiction, addicted to their negative life story who for whatever reason; are physically challenged to let go of the negative to unconditionally embrace the positive such unlearning to learn and to growing.  

Sometimes not apologizing for something you did can be a trigger for others.

An “lssues of life” trigger for me is being perpetually punished for a mistake I personally did and the person who tells me I am forgiven but reminds me of what I did for the last seven and a half years. It is ironic that this same individual in question, refused to take any responsibility for their selfish action and inaction who daily forgot I have apologized for my mistakes twelve times already. This individual, in my opinion have a dysfunctional relationship with forgiveness,  apologizing for anything they do who is not a forgiving person and who refuse to say sorry for anything they themselves have done. 

My apology was immediately dismissed and was deemed not good enough.

Sad to say; this individual refuses to objectively self-examine self who in my opinion, is disconnected from self.  When you look a their life it is clear to see they do not listen to sound advise and you leave them alone to deconstruct.


Sometimes life will force you to call a time out to take sometime to figure you out. Some people need to “know thyself” to become an awesome person to unconditionally care for humanity and to demonstrate compassion and hope to those who are in need.

I acknowledge certain people are in my life to take me to the next level, as their negativity is a trigger for me to rise my own standards a notch higher than what I had originally set for myself. 

Most people have not mastered
the exceptional skill of: 

"Listen without interrupting,

Speak without accusing,

Give without sparing,

Pray without ceasing,

Answer without arguing,

Share without pretending,

Enjoy without complaining,

Forgive without punishing, and

Promise without forgetting.” [Author Unknown].

Some of these “so called” friends have self-empowered me to secure my status of what it means to be an over-comer living in the present instead of in the past. My own triggers allowed me to fulfill my ordained purpose to reconnect and partnership with me.

I had to go through these heart wrenching experiences in order for me to effectively help others to get through their own “Issues of Life" triggers.

“Issues of life” triggers are our blind spots, and personal pitfalls that are masked. 

When triggers are unmasked it could be your impatience, abuse, immoral acts, eating disorders, self-harm, low self-esteem, promiscuity, financial debt, self-incarceration, perceptions, breech of confidentiality, devaluing someone, placing your own expectations on others, evil doing, a fowl mouth, addictions, being dissatisfied with life, jealousy, hatred, prejudice, envy, competing against brethren in an unhealthy ,competitive way, bullying, ongoing name calling, adultery, rape, victims of war, not acting within the best interest of your health by getting tested regardless of what your medical fears are, isolation, your personal blind spot(s), insecurity, self-stagnation to stagnate others which disallows one to RISE to their full potential, manipulation, lying, rage, the need to control, disrespecting others, having a dysfunctional relationship with correction whenever you are corrected, entitlement, the inability to sort through perspectives, the inability to unconditionally agree and disagree, condescending attitude, arrogance, pride, lack of knowledge, intolerance for others’ short comings, emotionally punishing someone after they told you they were sorry, guilt, shame, inconsistency, non-communication and non-commitment. All of the above mentioned are unhealthy “Issues of Life” – they trigger connections directly and indirectly, which is a dysfunctional system by design to disconnect you from you.

"Issues of Life" triggers oftentimes show up unannounced in verbal language tones such as how loud one’s voice may be, body language, certain words, and personal habits one may have who may be disconnected from self who is not present to self.

Is your trigger your anger, to warrant and to execute violence against your husband? Violence and spousal bullying is absolutely wrong.

Sometimes, “Issues of Life” triggers can bring disappointment. Sometimes “Issues of Life” triggers are a profound reminder to self that you may need some support because what you may or may not be doing is not working. 

“Issues of Life” triggers will sometimes obscure your vision to bring about division. In my own experience people who I love do not unconditionally act within the best interests of me, with the understanding that where they are at today is not where they will be tomorrow because I unconditionally believe in them.

Sometimes, our trigger is our weight and sometimes it is a medical conditions that you have no control over. Did you know, mental health illness sometimes are triggered by an event. "Mental Illness touches us all, but to quote Chris Summerville: “Today is the best day to have a mental illness […]. Mental Illnesses are treatable, and recovery is Possible.”
Mental Health Triggers 101 

As an “Issues of Life” Navigator, Human Rights Activist and a Spiritual Gift Developer, it is important for me to always see the best in everyone to bring out the exceptional best in others.

I had to personally learn how to master forgiveness by disarming my own “Issues of Life” trigger association and my unaware relationship I had with bitterness. Forgiveness is like an onion: one must physically separate the layers one teardrop at a time peeling away at each layer in great detail. Over the years, I had to learn that I must be patient with me. Forgiveness is reconciling past experiences. If you do not master forgiveness you will be bitter and resentful. 

Forgiveness is like someone’s fingerprint. The forgiveness process journey is going to be different for everyone. It could take three months or 40 years. In my opinion, it is wrong for anyone to tell you to “just get over it” as getting over it requires emotional support. Respecting the forgiveness season where someone is at is very important and only the individual can determine their journey not people. No one has the right to tell you “just get over it.” You have the right, however, to get over it in your time and in your season.

Letting go and finding the courage to set you free from your past must be taken, to keep you moving forward with your life which becomes a living testimony to support and encourage others. Your past is not your destiny. If anyone reminds you of your past in a negative or evil way to break your spirit, thank them and then tell them, “without you my friend it would be impossible for me to know how far I have come.” It is my opinion that only a “friend enemy” will bask you into your past.

For me, emotional purging and delivering one’s self out of the hand of emotionally toxic people must become a way of life and a precautionary measure to be taken to remain mentally free, to operate in a state of inner freedom and with inner peace within your spirit. I personally live my life by this quote: “Thou wilt keep (me) in perfect peace.” When one is at peace with themselves, one will be at peace with others. If you are not at peace with others it is because you are not at peace with yourself. 

As a Christian, individual choices must be respected and I expect individuals to respect my choice as I openly declare I am Christian trying daily to be a better Christian, which is spiritual and physical work. 

It is important to me to represent light. It is important to me not to be a moral hazard to anyone as I daily partnership with God. It is important to me that I never judge anyone because we are all one step away from being entrapped by our own “Issues of Life” if we do not actively address them.

Be encouraged and not discouraged by your situation or circumstances. Your situation is providing you a solid foundation for you to stand on to step into your destiny and into the amazing person you are, today.  

Let's Talk About Triggers.

Negative words hurt people.“Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof. 

The demarcation of what someone spoke into your spirit many years ago, has caused some to self-imprison themselves into the confinement of one’s mind in the way one think or self-view themselves. Believing in those negative words will play out a story line of one’s subjective thoughts, which is not the absolute truth about you. 

If you were bullied in a relationship, in a place of worship, in your workplace, in your home by your spouse and if you were subjected to diverse abuse, please tell someone you trust, plan your escape if you choose to leave your abusive situation with professional help, guidance and get the professional support you need to be free to be the amazing you.

Sometimes we have allowed yesterday’s experience to become our spiritual weapons of internal warfare against ones self. After all my strength is gone I look to you.

Whatever "Issues of Life" triggers are not completely healed in you, wholeness and inner 
peace will be denied until YOU deal with YOU. It is important for one to be present and to find out what is your emotional triggers. 

"All meltdowns and shutdowns will have been triggered by something. The secret to success is knowing what these triggers are. 

Cognitive and Sensory meltdowns have different triggers and require a very personal tailored approach.

Triggers once identified can be eliminated or at the very least avoided, for example would someone allergic to nuts knowingly and deliberately eat them? Of course not! So it stands to reason that someone with a sensitivity to noise will avoid it! However with guidance and identification of triggers, measures can be taken to minimize discomfort within some environments lessening the risk of meltdown or shutdown.

There are literally hundreds of triggers which can affect someone adversely. Just knowing where to look for these clues will unravel the mystery and provide a solution” Source: Meltdown Mentor

Question, what triggers or trigger are preventing you from moving forward directly or indirectly? 

If you are not s part of your own trigger solution, then you are a part of your own  trigger problem. To be triggered is a choice. 

Christian Holocaust - Calling All Christians To Pray NOW!

To believe in something and not live it, is dishonest” 

March 8, 2015, I was at church on Sunday and one of our Minister ask the question what if God was to ask us to go to one of these country who are beheaded Christians, would you go to share the gospel of hope who are our brothers and who are our sister who are in crisis. 

When the question was ask, I started asking myself would I go? I ask myself am I prepared to die like some of my Christian brothers and Christian sisters?  I asked myself will denounce Jesus if someone held a knife to my son head? I ask myself what would I do?  If Jesus Christ was persecuted ALL Christians need to be scripturally and mentally prepared to be persecuted directly or indirectly. 

The reality is there is a Christian Holocaust and some Christians and some non-Christians silent.

March 10, 2015  - I cannot sleep it is 12:05 a.m. and the more I think about this issues the more my spirit became unsettle.  I starting writing.

In 2015 the world is experiencing a Christian Holocaust at the hands of our oppressor who daily violate the right to live and to exist as a human being. 

Why are world leaders and humanity silent at the act of murder and genocide. Christian Holocaust is a Human Rights violation based on religious persecution.

Warning Video is Graphic 

What would you do if your baby, son, mother, uncle, father, grandmother, niece, nephew were brutal murder for you denounce your Christian faith or would you convert to another religion to save your life? What would you do? Would you lay down your life for Jesus Christ?  Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. John 15:13

God has no religion because God is not a religion. God is God.

As our governments look on, Christians cannot look on we must now "pray without ceasing”.

What if Christians were being persecuted in North America would the Christian Community or the world care? 

Why are we not protesting daily? 

Are some Christians reduce to be silence?  When are some going speak out against Christian genocide and homicide.  If a Jewish group was being persecuted right now the world would not watch but act to prevent any Jewish Holocaust from taken place. If this was a Jewish Holocaust in 2015 some Jews would say never again and resources would be access not denied.

Christian children and babies are being beheaded.

Regardless of your religious or irreligious position human suffering is everyone’s business. We are spiritually and physically connected to each other not disconnected. 

What would you do if this were your child?

“Rulers of darkness” can be stop if we dare to be united in prayer. United we stand divided we will fall as a race. 

Calling all Christians and other interfaith to PRAY UNTIL SOMETHING HAPPENS to stop the unstoppable "spiritual wickedness in high places”. This war must be fought on our knees in a state of perpetual prayer. 

"A Christian Holocaust is in our midst. We are actually calling this a Christian genocide… Day by day, it is getting worse and worse. More children are being beheaded. Mothers are being raped and killed. Fathers are being hung. Right now, 300,000 Christians are fleeing Iraq and living in neighbouring cities.” 

“Be the change that you wish to see in the world.

”To all my Christians brothers and Christians sister who have die or will die "Ye are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world” 1 John 4:4

Almighty God forgive those who have committed international crime and genocide against the Christian community who are misguided by self-determine doctrines that promote anti-life and anti-love 

"If I wrote a note God, I would say God please help us find our way"

Human Rights Dialogue - Sexuality/Christians/LGBTTIQQ2S Community

I am a Christian Human Rights Activist and I absolutely love activism.  I live my life by this quote daily: “be the change you want to see in the world”.  Mahatma Gandhi

My goal in this life is to inspire the uninspired. 

When we stop judging and start loving each other for who we are as a people; and not what we think one should be, by our own self-standards of selfishness, it is only then we can have an open dialogue that is free from self, free from self-expectation, free from assumptions, free from oppression, free from exploitation, and free from self-hate to disarm hate from within self. 

I believe in communities, I believe in unity and I believe in our human family. 

Nevertheless, what you need to know right now in this moment is, you are unconditionally loved, you are valued and you are "wonderfully made" by God. Humanity at large, is made up of "colourful" beautiful people.  The tapestry of humanity is non religious, irreligious to include the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender,Transsexual, Intersex, Queer,  Questioning,and 2 Spirited community, religious leader, the Natives, the forgotten, the homeless , the professionals, our immediate/extended family members, the mentally ill, someone living with a terminal disease, the isolated, the shut-in, the incarcerated, the abuser, the victim, the community elder, the addicts, the unemployed, the single parent, the self-defined sexual orientation selection and individuals who are from one of many multicultural background. 

Hate is not a accurate depiction of God's unconditional love or Christianity. Hate is not love. Hate is a reflection of self and hate is a negative expression of who you are now but the courage to tell hate one day, HATE! you cannot live within me anymore. When hate is release it is in that very moment you are able to disable HATE, to capture your future. Hate cannot bully you anymore. 

We can have a dialogue conversation not a monologue conversation with anyone, regardless of one’s sexual orientation. We must purpose, whenever possible to be bridge builders instead of being wall builders. Being religious is not a license to break the criminal code and to illegally self-pursue another human being, to spiritually destroy anyone directly or indirectly. Equal Rights is Human Rights which must be free from one’s self-ideology or a worldwide religion.

Assaulting anyone who is Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Transsexual, Intersex, Queer, Questioning, and 2 Spirited is a criminal offense and so is Hate Crime.

LGBTTIQQ2S Definitions and what some terminology mean.

Biological explanation - National Geographic explains the biology of homosexuality.

Christianity Position -Ravi Zacharias answers a Question About Homosexuality

Homosexuality in Islam: Is There A Place For Gay Muslims?

"Gay Suicides" - Bronte, Fraser, and Josh (Brave New Voices 2011)

Atheist - Homosexuality: Unnatural?

If one subscribes to a religion, one must comply with the religious teachings because it is a religious standard not a self-standard, but a religious expectation requirement. One at some point, made the free choice decision to comply with that specific religion as a self-commitment declaration. 

If one’s lifestyle or sexual orientation contradicts a religious belief system, that is specific to a worldwide religion, one’s sexual orientation decision or choice, may not be a right match for the religion in question. 

In Christianity for example, the bible will resist ALL homosexuality “ideologies” directly or indirectly. Any self-conclusive perspectives the bible or scripture is in a partnership alignment agreement, with Jesus Christ, scripture, the sixty-six books and God who “change not"  Numbers 23:19

Christianity is in the business of positively transforming individual lives no matter what one's “past” or lifestyle was or what one’s current life transition looks like right now because we are all work in progress. However, if you are a Christian and if your are sexually active you are in a state of contempt of scripture and scriptural disobedience and scriptural rebellion. "For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the Lord, he hath also rejected thee from being king” king or queen. 1 Samuel 15:23 

Do you know what this is? 

If you are not legally married and you are shacking up or just living together with someone and you are a Christian, it is not scriptural. Christians, dating is 100% not scriptural and it is scripturally wrong. It is surprising to me, some Christians are having sex. How do you know for sure you are not releasing a STD disease if you are a Christian male and how do you know for sure you are not receiving a medical disease called HIV? Christians should not be having sex period. All Christians are scripturally required to "flee fornication.  Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not 

that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20. When Christian men and women "flee fornication, adultery, telephone sex chat line and any named or unnamed anti-Genesis1:27 scriptural "world" norm instead of a scriptural standard, Christians BEWARE; expect to get an STD whenever one makes the decision to participate in a sexual sin. Saved by grace is not a condom when you have sex and when you have unprotected sex. Here is what the bible says about repeat Christian anti-scriptural sex or sin offenders; "For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins" Hebrews 10:26 One's reprobate mind and one's reprobate sexual action is biblically wrong. Sex and sin activities are one of many signs of a reprobate Christian. A Christian with an EGO is scripturally empty, whose reprobate position is to sin aggressively, "Ease God Out" which is scripturally concluded in Romans 1:28 proceed depiction, "And even as they did not like to (sexually and scripturally) retain God in their (scriptural) knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not (scripturally) convenient" to do. God and scripture is there for your protection, correction and direction.

Some Christian women need to keep their panties on not off and some Christian men need to stop unzipping their pant instead of zipping up your penis and sexuality with the word of God. Sin is sin. If a Christian goes above and beyond to wilfully fornicate or commit adultery, the world community needs to know not all Christians are Christians. Christians are either a liability or an asset to the kingdom of God which is sexually self-determined. Fornication and adultery is not scriptural. "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Thou shalt not commit adultery. Thou shalt not steal" a vagina or a penis you do not legally or scripturally own, who is not your Christian wife or your Christian husband. Hebrews 13:4, Exodus 20:14-15

Some Christians need to sexually correct themselves before you even think or attempt to control another human being's sexual organs. Some Christians need to check themselves before SOME so called CHRISTIANS physically, spiritually, scripturally and sexually wreck themselves if one makes the decision, to operate outside of scriptural integrity. 

Some Christians will sexually try anything. I scripturally advise you, if this is you, you can scripturally shutdown your own scripturally undisciplined Christian penis or vagina FIRST which is owned by God not you.

The Westboro Baptist Church is a church of hate which is not a scriptural representation of Christianity. Some Christians need to check themselves who are physically, spiritually, scripturally and sexually operating outside of scriptural integrity. Some Christians need to stop attacking the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Transsexual, Intersex, Queer, Questioning, and 2 Spirited community.  "Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not becondemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven" Luke 6:37

We have some "pastors" who are in some of God's churches and who are anti-scripturally "prostituting" their body who are sexually active and meeting and sexually mingling with church members. Jeremiah 23:1-5 is clear, "Woe be unto the pastors that destroy and scatter the sheep of my pasture! saith the Lord. Therefore thus saith the Lord God of Israel against the pastors that feed my people; Ye have scattered my flock, and driven them away, and have not visited them: behold, I will visit upon you the evil of your doings, saith the Lord. And I will gather the remnant of my flock out of all countries whither I have driven them, and will bring them again to their folds; and they shall be fruitful and increase. And I will set up shepherds over them which shall feed them: and they shall fear no more, nor be dismayed, neither shall they be lacking, saith the Lord. Behold, the days come, saith the Lord, that I will raise unto David a righteous Branch, and a King shall reign and prosper, and shall execute judgment and justice in the earth."  

1 Corinthians 9:18 profoundly ask all Christians; "What is my reward then? Verily that, when I preach the gospel, I may make the gospel of Christ without charge, that I abuse not my power in the gospel" 

God and Jesus Christ is demanding YOU if you are a Christian, to surrender your anti-scriptural reprobate vagina or your reprobate penis back to God according to James 4:7-8 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded. God, want all your sexual god or gods surrender to Him today.

We must be patient with each other because perspectives can change. I am proof of that.

I was very anti-Christianity due to the colonization by the colonizer that implemented an oppressive system. Some Christians stole native land, their rich culture and their language in an exchange program called greed. The bible was used as a psychological “weapon” of cultural mass destruction by turning self against self through a process called divide and conquer. Christianization was the order of the day, without individual consent or not consent to "white supremacy" assimilation of another human being into what someone thinks they should be. This is a historical fact. As I grew in knowledge, I realized God, Jesus and scripture are innocent of what another human being did in the name of Christianity. Yet the Aboriginal People have been and continue to be marginalized in North America. Some are mentally captured by the pain of direct or indirect rape some women, some men, and some children experience at the cruel hands of some Christians, to spiritually rape and snatch their future and their land.

I wanted nothing to do with church or Christian folks who were mean spirited and wicked individuals based on my experience. My father over the years, would ask if he could pray with me and I would tell him "NO, I'm a backslider!" I was raised in the church all my life. I recall one day my father was driving. We were at Spadina and Bloor he ask me this question, "my Marie, what would you do if Jesus Christ was to come now?" I told my dad; "I guess I am going to HELL. I'm okay with that." My dad who was driving at the time, pulled over and STOPPED the car immediately. My dad looked me in the eye, with tears in his eyes, he said; “you are going to serve God with all your heart one day, you are going to help people”. I told my dad “never and that was a job for Jesus."

I wanted nothing to do with Christians or to be like those some of those hypocrite Christians who are so evil, except for the day they go to church. My dad passed away and my father's words came to past. I take being a Christian scripturally serious. One’s past provides a solid foundation to step out by faith and one’s situation is a profound scriptural future launch of God’s greatness. 

It would be a scriptural conflict of interest, if Christianity, Christians or scripture conformed to one’s lifestyle to serve a “god”, diverse “issues of life” gods or the sexual “god” called the god of sexual deviation within the context of scripture and Christianity. 

Christianity is supported by scriptures and one’s ability to apply not deny the application of scripture in one’s action and inaction. Most Christians are scriptural applicability challenged. Christianity is life changing, it is about sharing personal testimony of being an incest survivor, being freed from drug addiction, and surviving a suicide attempt. Christianity is about having a relationship with God instead of people, places, churches, denominations and things. The reality is Christians have isues too who are imperfect people too. 

Christianity is a scriptural lifestyle not a self-lifestyle.

Christianity has the capacity to take one's broken life of going nowhere to scripturally transition one's life from a state of no identity to having a scriptural identity. In fact, a "so called messed-up life” so to speak, can become a life changing classroom of experience, extrapolating and imparting knowledge everyone can learn from.

The reality is, like in any community, there are a few "bad apples" within our Christian community who are anti-scripturally wasting their lives away. These are our  “hearer of the word” so called Christians. Whose sole focus, is to scripturally “masturbate” the word of God to self-satisfy flesh or sin 

who are in a perpetual state of contempt of scripture.My personal desire is to become the living word of “ministry of the word” and not looking or acting like the world by the grace of God. 

Christianity, scriptural position, is always on standby; ready to unconditionally assist anyone who calls upon the name of Jesus!

It is my opinion, as I am the expert and the author of my own opinion and experiences, Christians should not be having any ongoing "pow wow" dialogue sessions with any special interest group; if one has not mastered one’s emotions and negative speaking.

One must research to connect instead of disconnecting from Human Rights issues which are specific and important to individuals. If one is religious or irreligious, one must be able to know the difference between religious rights and human rights and the law.

What one thinks, is not the law and one must be knowledge responsible to know or have some premise understanding of legal process of how a bill becomes law in Ontario, the Insurance Act if you drive a car, the Education Act for the school your child or children may attends, the Family Law Act for those marriage or have children,the Residential Tenancies Act if you rent, the Pension Act if you have private pension and the Police Act if you live in the Province of Ontario. It takes years for laws to come into

effect. The bible I read tells me “my people are destroyed due to lack of knowledge" and the thought of foolishness is a sin. Lack of knowledge is ignorance and it is not scriptural. Some individuals watch the "TELL-LIE-VISION” and I enjoy reading various act, stutues, regulations and legistlation for the fun of it. Both my children who are knew the Police Act because when my sons turn 10 ten years of age they know what their rights were and what a police officer could ask or not ask under the Police Act. In fact, the Police Act never left their school bag. The bible to me is like the scriptural regulation for Christians which is no different from the law. 

Christianity is scripturally open to anyone who accepts the word of God 100%. Christianity is not open to anyone who accept the word of God 50% or 99.9 % because it is not scripturally plausible.

Anything that is anti-scriptural is Antichrist. Within the Christian community we do have some closet or openly practicing S.I.N worshipping, who masquerade in their "sin costume" on Sabbath (Saturday) or Sunday depending which day one decide to worship. Sin is Christianity new age movement which is called the Self Indulge Negativity movement.  All Christians are scripturally instructed to "Abstain from all appearance of evil” 1 Thessalonians 5:22

Christianity, is an all or nothing religion based on Numbers 30:2 vow agreement and our scriptural contract agreement on the day one was baptized or made a verbal vow covenant to God. Christianity is scripturally closed to any self-desire “dispositions" that could be innate, anti-scriptural or self-determined by self.Christianity is in business of casting down every single imagination that goes against the knowledge of God. Self-ideology, and self opinion(s) that are directly or indirectly anti-scripture, is not scripturally recognized within our scripture statutes or scriptural legislation outlined in the bible: "In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God (John 1:1).” 

To be a Christian, one must disengage not engage in a lifestyle that contradicts scripture to justify sin; to sin again and again and again. Habits, sexual orientation, lifestyle, anti-love and self-decision MUST BE CONFORMED to scripture. Scripture WILL NOT AND CANNOT conform to habits, a homosexuality lifestyle, anti-scriptural lifestyle and self-decisions that are anti-scriptural. Authentic “doer of the word” scriptural applicability Christians are not scriptural reformist who scripturally go along to anti-scripturally get along. Christians and non Christians need to have the scriptural understanding, if one decides to be a Christian it is a self decision one needs to research before one makes a salvation informative or formative decision to be a Christian. Christianity is aspiritual, scriptural, and physical contract with God not with any world “god”. World attributes are a visible and invisible system by design which is not scripturally designed.

Decision making is all apart of life. I am convinced "free will - is the fundamental aspect of religion. No free will - you are not free, which goes against most religions. Why is there so much negativity in the world? In order to be FREE, you must be able to make good or bad choices, otherwise freedom does not exist."

Humanity must respect one’s right to be a "Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Transsexual, Intersex, Queer, Questioning, and 2 Spirited" or one’s right to be Christian which in both cases are self-determined.

Scripture, if you are a Christian, is the bible job description which is to regulate or deregulate actions and inactions. Scripture is to expose any named or unnamed scriptural infractions in one’s sexuality or actions. Philippians 2:12 is an instructional scripture and a directive to self issue a cease and desist on self to independently not collectively, one MUST "work out your own salvation with fear and trembling”. '

What Jesus Christ scripturally said was “... If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me. And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me” 

Jesus never bullied anyone into Christianity during His stay here on earth. All Christians if they are reading the word of God, are scripturally responsible to regulate or deregulate self not the world but self. My scriptural argument is scripturally supported in the scriptural directive of Matthew 10:38, Matthew 16:24 In other words, Jesus Christ has a scriptural vested interest; in any individual who denies self, sin, addictions, an anti-Genesis 1:27 sexual orientation, an anti-scriptural lifestyle, world ideology and upholding the word of God. One who is a “Christian” is expected to carry the word of God in their heart which is a scriptural action not an anti-scriptural self-action expression.

I would never disrespect anyone or use my Christian belief to intimidate anyone by hurting them. On the inside we are the same which is what  this community and I have in common. I do have friends who are from the LGBTTIQQ2S community who I have dinner with or tea. Meet my friend Kim Crosby who recently got married, who is an exceptional human being. Kim identifies herself “queer”. We have done workshops together for the LGBTTIQQ2S community. Kim’s decision is not my  decision and my “sister” is apart of my life forever and I love her for being true to who she is as an awesome person. It is a fact, some Christians' lifestyle is closet LGBTTIQQ2S, who are in scriptural denial, which is their choice but scripturally incorrect according to Genesis 1:27. No Christians have a right to judge another Christian if one has not purged self of one’s own “issues of life” called adultery, pornography, sexual abuse, anger, stealing, lying, controling attributes, dishonesty, fraud, contempt of scripture, cheating, financial neglect, verbal abuse, entitlement, rape, emotional abuse and religious abuse. What are your "issues of life”? “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life." Proverbs 4:23

As a born again Christian, who believes "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life"; with the profound understanding everyone or anyone can access everlasting life. 1 John 1:9 represent and present an opportunity for change for those who are willing to scripturally change. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance." 2 Peter 3:9

A "Christian Tare" will tear you apart who is without scriptural truth. One has a right to comply with the law, one has a right to comply with one’s own bylaws and one has to the right to enforce or challenge the laws or organization bylaws. The problem is, individuals want to double dip into state and religious systems without legal knowledge understanding which is lack of knowledge ignorance. One cannot live in a society and not know your rights. Religion and state are two different systems that are independent of each other. Sexual orientation is a private matter not a public matter. It is my opinion, one’s religion or opinion, or one’s pro-choice decision must not be a reason to violate the rights of others. 

One’s religion or attitude cannot be used to justify hate, intolerance, torture, murder and bullying. One’s religion cannot be used to destroy another human being who has the right to be religious or irreligious.

‪Kids React to Gay Marriage‬.

What does my pro-Christianity value, my pro-heterosexual position or my pro-scriptural position have to do with someone’s right to choose? One must ask themselves this question: "regardless if one is irreligious or religious, what right do you have to regulate or deregulate another human being's penis, vagina, sexual orientation, choices, religion and decisions when it is not your decision?" Prophetess Elijah-Marie Reid

One’s religion and one’s sexual orientation is not your business and you need to mind your own business because you can only control your own sexual organs. I dare someone, to try to illegally deregulate my pro-heterosexual position or my right to choose to be in a heterosexual marriage which is my right to choose what is right for me. I am scripturally prepared to challenge anyone based on the law if any community or individual would want to regulate my heterosexual position or my sexual organs.

My sexual organs are regulated by scripture, not by societal ideology. The only administration I acknowledge is male-female, which consists of a penis and a vagina union, based on my sexual preference and my right to choose. This is why the LGBTTIQQ2S community are winning court cases in North America. A governmental system cannot regulate a sexual organ which is a private matter not a public safety matter. I do not have the right to destroy someone from the inside out or tell anyone what is right for them. 

If churches do not want to be “world” dictated or anti-scripturally conformed to, DO NOT get government funding because the the monetary source is coming from taxpayers money which comes from the "Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Transsexual, Intersex, Queer, Questioning, and 2 Spirited or LGBTTIQQ2S community.

It is important if you live in a society one must know the law, how to legally function and how to govern one’s self according to the law. Emotions and individual belief is not the law.

If you are a not-for-profit organization and if your organization makes the profound decision to get government funding which comes from individuals who represent our worldwide religions, cultures and sexual orientation communities that may be different from what you consider the “norm",  funding could be revoked based on law violations. "Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye."

If a church is  being funded by the government expect to marry a same sex couple and expect to hire not fire, individuals who could be "Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Transsexual, Intersex, Queer, Questioning, and 2 Spirited".  Whenever churches accept government, funding means you must now comply with the laws instead of religious bylaws. If a church has NO government funding, they have a right to enforce their spiritual bylaws of who they marry and who they will not marry and based on Genesis 1:27.

Religious organizations should not be shocked if one chooses to enforce their right to sue based on discrimination under the Ontario Human Rights Code, if you live in Canada.

Public establishments denied service based on sexual orientation - Lawmakers looking to end sexual orientation discrimination.

For the record, no I have NEVER been in a LGBTTIQQ2S relationship from the time I was born until now. 

Sad to say, many of my LGBTTIQQ2S brothers and my LGBTTIQQ2S sisters have been murdered, just because they are unique. The commandment says: "Thou shalt not kill." Exodus 20:13

Oprah Winfrey: Teen Bullying LGBT & Straight Youths.

Name calling is wrong, bullying is wrong, physical abuse is wrong, and disrespecting someone is wrong Where is the love?

The profound reason why I am a Christian, it is because Jesus Christ never killed any members of the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Transsexual, Intersex, Queer, Questioning, and 2 Spirited community, Jesus Christ unconditionally loved everyone. To the LGBTTIQQ2S community “It Gets Better”!

Social change starts with me and ends with you. As a Christian, I have a profound responsibility to humanity to SPEAK OUT against “homophobia” and become an outcast amongst “so called” Christians who refused to, not “judge.”

Over zealous traditionalist, wanted to stone the adulterer. Instead, Jesus broke traditions and asked "He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her”  A true Christian will break traditions and remain true to the word of God. A false Christian will judge, will condemn and will kill who is mislead by self not God.

Jesus Christ was an outcast and Jesus Christ was persecuted who dared to be different, who wanted to make a scriptural difference to cast down stereotype and religiosity that was anti-love.

Jesus Christ's authentic ministry is perpetually called “second chance”, freedom of one’s right to choose to accept Jesus Christ or not, unconditional love, compassion, possessing a non-judgemental mentality by casting anything down that is not scriptural and to be selfless to serve humanity, that is specific to Christians.

Let’s have a dialogue with self. Question: do you like you? Have you forgiven you? Are you abusive...if yes what are you going to do about your abusive behavior? If you do not like you, it is impossible to like anyone when you do not like you. Why do some Christians hate the "Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Transsexual, Intersex, Queer, Questioning, and 2 Spirited" community? Hate is unlike Christ and if you are a Christian, your need to, "Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith; prove your own selves. Know ye not your own selves, how that Jesus Christ is in you, except ye be reprobates? They profess that they know God; but in works they deny him, being abominable, and disobedient, and unto every good work reprobate" 2 Corinthians 13:5, Titus 1:16.

Some Christians need to stop establishing HATE, who are “...being ignorant of God's righteousness, and going about to establish their own righteousness, have not submitted themselves unto the righteousness of God.  Romans 10:3

I know for a fact, some Christians will not agree with my position but I assure the Christian community  I know who I am. 

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